For the past 2 weeks I have been tuning in to MIX FIM for their lie detector test programme. This lie detector test is certified, and measures involuntary heartbeat, or when someone is lying.

I don’t really have the full details as I can only listen to the programme on my way to work – and don’t normally get to hear the end.

I wonder if the participants know what they are getting themselves in to.

But from my point of view, I am not sure if I would like to find out on national radio dirty dark secrets.

This woman found out from her husband’s PA that his business trip to Bali is not purely for work as he is going with his mistress.

This woman finds out her husband thinks she is fat.

This man got his colleague to admit that their boss is an incompetent idiot.

Another woman finds out that her husband is having an affair – and this is not the first time in their 11 years of marriage, and 3 kids later.

When people voluntarily subject themselves to pain… It makes me want to go outdoors, take a deep breath look at the heavens and ask WHY?! as I sob.

Sometimes ignorance is bliss.

Easier said than done of course. I believe it’s in a woman’s nature to always want to ask why, why, why… and confirm their deepest darkest fear – only then to make up excuses as to why it’s really not happening.

Women are confusing…